Parenting: Joy or Nightmare?
The chapter begins with a set of parents, kneeling in puddles, begging and bribing a three-year-old to get in the car so they can go home. Then, a mother sits in a seat at an airport yelling demands at her young son to “come back here!” Next, a story of a mother whose boys are dividing and conquering the grocery store one aisle at a time, while she sprints between the two trying to control the damage.
“Are we having fun yet?” We start out with precious dreams of grins and giggles, and it devolves into some Lord of the Flies nightmare. According to the authors. They want to give us tools to “put the fun back in parenting” by establishing guidelines and giving us solid parenting tools.
Our goal is to raise responsible kids. When we parent with love and logic, parents win because “they love in a healthy way and establish control over their kids without resorting to anger and treats that encourage rebellious teenage behavior.” Kids win because they “learn responsibility and the logic of life by solving their own problems.”
We are working through Foster Cline and Jim Fay’s book, Parenting with Love and Logic.